The Three Classic Ways to Approach a Woman

The Three Classic Ways to Approach a Woman

One common misconception about womanizers or players is that they all have a “golden” pickup line. They can walk up to any girl, use it, and take her home. Because of this many guys who start learning about attracting women search for the perfect pickup line thinking it’ll solve all the problems. In reality pick up lines are all about luck.You can use the worst pick up line ever invented, but if she thinks you’re cute then you’re in. But more than likely she would’ve been interested in you, but you ruined your chances by using a cheezy pick up line. Do some guys really think they can get laid with “If I could rearrange the alphabet, I’d put U and I together!” Instead try one of these time tested openers and get some results.

1. Ask her a question or opinion on something

You want to approach as if you’re not trying to pick her up, and after she finishes answering the question, you transition it into a normal conversation. This is probably the “safest” way to approach someone because you can get an idea of how interested she is in talking to you.

Ex. Bad Response

Me: “Hey I just bought this tie today, I was wondering if I could get your opinion on how it looks on me”

Girl: “It’s okay”

*ackward silence*

Ex. Good Response

Me: “Hey I just bought this tie today, I was wondering if I could get your opinion on how it looks on me”

Girl: “Oh yea that looks great, the color of the tie really matches your eyes, where did you get it?”

With the bad response you can tell that she’s not that interested in talking, and you can leave the situation casually. The second response you can tell that she wants to talk and you can take it from there. Remember that what she says alone isn’t enough to gauge her interest, take notice of her body language and other forms of none verbal communication.

Another tip if once you’re in the conversation don’t introduce yourself or ask for her name. Let her ask because it can be seen as a sign of interest.

2. Direct Opening

This is when you walk up to a girl and you let her know immediately that you’re interested in her. It can be in the form of a compliment or a statement of interest. This method obvious takes the most balls to do, but the payoff can be big if it works out. This works well if you’re a good looking guy that doesn’t mind rejection.

ex. “Hey I saw you from across the room and I wanted to come over and say hi”

3. “Hi”